2. Right Thought. We are what we think. Clear and kind thoughts build good, strong characters.
3. Right Speech. By speaking kind and helpful words, we are respected and trusted by everyone.
4. Right Conduct. No matter what we say, others know us from the way we behave. Before we criticize others, we should first see what we do ourselves.
5. Right Livelihood. This means choosing a job that does not hurt others. The Buddha said, "Do not earn your living by harming others. Do not seek happiness by making others unhappy."
6. Right Effort. A worthwhile life means doing our best at all times and having good will toward others. This also means not wasting effort on things that harm ourselves and others.
7. Right Mindfulness. This means being aware of our thoughts, words, and deeds.
8. Right Concentration. Focus on one thought or object at a time. By doing this, we can be quiet and attain true peace of mind.
The chapter of 2010 is closed, "And so we turn the page over. To think of starting. This is all there is." Learn from our mistakes. Hm. What have I learned? What do I still need to learn?
2010 Lessons
Not having a plan does not make you a failureFall in love slowly
Be aware of your surroundings; listen to your fateful gut
Take time for yourself
Don't take anything personally
Make sure the person you are dating is someone you respect
Sometimes being a friend simply means unconditional support
Speak with integrity (after listening....)
2011 Works In Progress
Finish the book!
Be less critical of yourself
Be who you are and say what you feel...because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind :)
Follow your heart.
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